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Sunday, December 13, 2009

In Memory Of Lawrence Tan Wei Meng

Recently, a very good friend of mine just passed away in an accident. His name is Lawrence Tan Wei Meng, Male, 28 this year. Birth date 07/11/1981.

His death was in the news. Apparently, some lorry driver did an illegal u-turn and thus crashing head on with my friend's van causing him to suffer serious injuries.

I've known him for 10 years. He was the last person i thought that would go off so young. He passed away on 10/12/2009. A day i will always remember.

I have not seen him for 3 years. Just a few days before his death, he msn me to ask me out. I told him to give me a call but i guess the call will never come anymore.

Till now i still can't believe that he is gone but i've already stopped crying because of what a friend told me. I shall list it out later.

Right now, i just wanna say what a good friend he had been to me. He had always been a cheerful and jovial person. Always giving a helping hand to others.

He was a fillial kid and did his best in everything. Nothing ever seems too difficult for him to handle. He is always able to conquer everything that we find it difficult to do but he is always supportive of me and always there for me when i'm in trouble. I love going on rides on his bike.

The ironic thing is that he has always been a bike lover and he often travels alot on his bike to places like myanmar, thailand, etc.. But he did not die in a bike accident.

He has given me lots of beautiful memories and wonderful friends that i really treasure till this day. Because of him, we have started to contact each other again.

I will always remember my 17th birthday. The best birthday in my entire 26 years of life. He made it so memorable.

Just when i thought everyone has forgotten about my birthday, he was busy preparing a surprise birthday bash for me. At that time he had a bunch of good friends who call them themselves F4. Haha.. So cute right? If include Lawrence in would become 5566 already.

He called me and ask where i was so i told him i was at sentosa doing nothing. He sort of scolded me saying that everyone has been busy looking for me and they are about to post up pictures of me all around lamp post to look for me already.

I burst out laughing and he told me to get my ass out of sentosa and meet him straight away. I left immediately.

What met my eyes next really touched my heart. 1 of the F4 members was sick so couldn't make it but still, 4 guys holding a birthday cake was waiting for me. I'm such a lucky girl right?

Lawrence took us to a place which served really nice claypot abalone noodles and they sang a birthday song for me right there. I was really close to tears at that time.

He was the nicest friend i ever had and he will forever be remembered and stay in my heart even though he is now gone.

I'm gonna really miss him badly. I just find it tough to accept why God took him away while he is still so young and this is what a friend of mine told me and it made me feel better.

12/12/2009
4:30:11 AM
justin
~La>_
what is our purpose?
12/12/2009
4:30:19 AM
justin
~La>_
living or dying?
12/12/2009
4:30:33 AM
justin
~La>_
some are chosen to live...so they can do godwill
12/12/2009
4:30:48 AM
justin
~La>_
but some are chose to die...to bring glory to god
12/12/2009
4:30:57 AM
justin
~La>_
so who or what is GOD
12/12/2009
4:30:58 AM
justin
~La>_
?
12/12/2009
4:31:03 AM
justin
~La>_
GOD is LOVE
12/12/2009
4:31:33 AM
justin
~La>_
and if by dying...your fren help us to lOVE...then he did as what god told him to do
12/12/2009
4:31:56 AM
justin
~La>_
by his death...all are in sorrow
12/12/2009
4:31:59 AM
justin
~La>_
but
12/12/2009
4:32:13 AM
justin
~La>_
it also brought out the love in all of us
12/12/2009
4:32:27 AM
justin
~La>_
his memories bring abt love
12/12/2009
4:32:41 AM
justin
~La>_
his family is bounded closer by his death
12/12/2009
4:32:45 AM
justin
~La>_
thats love
12/12/2009
4:32:56 AM
justin
~La>_
his friend cry in pain...
12/12/2009
4:33:07 AM
justin
~La>_
but it shows the love they have for him
12/12/2009
4:33:12 AM
justin
~La>_
Thats LOVE
12/12/2009
4:33:19 AM
justin
~La>_
and love is god
12/12/2009
4:33:21 AM
justin
~La>_
GOD
12/12/2009
4:33:43 AM
justin
~La>_
doesn't that prove his death is worthy
12/12/2009
4:34:07 AM
justin
~La>_
the glory of GOD will b brought abt by his dead
12/12/2009
4:34:10 AM
justin
~La>_
death
12/12/2009
4:34:41 AM
justin
~La>_
so dont be sad...u can..but u must see LOVE in all this...or he will die for nothing
12/12/2009
4:34:52 AM
~La>_
justin
so by rememberin him n him living in my heart is also the same as rememberin God and God living in my heart?
12/12/2009
4:35:02 AM
justin
~La>_
yes
12/12/2009
4:35:10 AM
justin
~La>_
god knows your pain
12/12/2009
4:35:14 AM
justin
~La>_
he is there
12/12/2009
4:35:23 AM
justin
~La>_
next to u
12/12/2009
4:35:29 AM
justin
~La>_
jesus is
12/12/2009
4:35:41 AM
justin
~La>_
your tears is a representation of love
12/12/2009
4:35:53 AM
justin
~La>_
every drops will be for him
12/12/2009
4:35:57 AM
justin
~La>_
thats love
12/12/2009
4:36:21 AM
justin
~La>_
every 1 that feels for him...its love
12/12/2009
4:36:32 AM
justin
~La>_
so dont hate the lorry driver
12/12/2009
4:36:45 AM
justin
~La>_
u must go beyond that
12/12/2009
4:36:48 AM
justin
~La>_
go past that
12/12/2009
4:37:07 AM
justin
~La>_
instead pray for his forgiveness
12/12/2009
4:37:13 AM
justin
~La>_
forgiveneSS
12/12/2009
4:37:37 AM
justin
~La>_
becos by love...u will glorify god...and GOD see that
12/12/2009
4:37:44 AM
justin
~La>_
hatred is evil
12/12/2009
4:37:56 AM
justin
~La>_
so u must win over hatred
12/12/2009
4:38:02 AM
~La>_
justin
i dun hate the lorry driver
12/12/2009
4:38:13 AM
justin
~La>_
he will get what he deserve
12/12/2009
4:38:20 AM
justin
~La>_
that is for GOD to decide
12/12/2009
4:38:45 AM
justin
~La>_
dont u think he is also in pain
12/12/2009
4:38:55 AM
justin
~La>_
?
12/12/2009
4:38:58 AM
justin
~La>_
he is
12/12/2009
4:39:11 AM
justin
~La>_
this will live for ever in him
12/12/2009
4:39:25 AM
justin
~La>_
i pray many times...to GOD
12/12/2009
4:39:38 AM
justin
~La>_
dont let me take some1 life by my stupidity
12/12/2009
4:39:51 AM
justin
~La>_
i cannot live with blood on my hands
12/12/2009
4:40:12 AM
justin
~La>_
its far worst than your frens death
12/12/2009
4:40:28 AM
justin
~La>_
so
12/12/2009
4:40:47 AM
justin
~La>_
there is nothing wrong in dying
12/12/2009
4:41:01 AM
justin
~La>_
he serve his purpose...
12/12/2009
4:41:20 AM
justin
~La>_
we only see it from our angle...not god's
12/12/2009
4:41:38 AM
justin
~La>_
u r not wrong...but learn to see and listen
12/12/2009
4:42:09 AM
justin
~La>_
pain is what mould and shape a person
12/12/2009
4:42:29 AM
justin
~La>_
u will see that after the healing start....GOD is everywhere
12/12/2009
4:42:45 AM
justin
~La>_
so....u must tell god to heal your pain
12/12/2009
4:42:50 AM
justin
~La>_
he will

I pray that he is happy and pain free whenever he is now and continue to look after us from above there.

In his memory...


3 comments:

Soh Hong Wei said...

Life is fragile.
Take care and live everyday to the fullest.

LoudExhaust said...

I know Lawrence aka Ones_Co, from a motorcycling trip to Malaysia.

He comes across as a very rugged young man. Yet, behind this physical exterior, is someone who is very intelligent, very nice, very accommodating, very selfless and very filial.

Do you know he took his mother on the back of his motorcycle and rode all the way from Singapore to Myanmar and back?

Alas, the Lord has called Lawrence to join beside Him. May the pain pass soon for his loved ones who are grieving for him.

God bless Lawrence.

Endlessloop

Princess Lala said...

Yes. I know. His mum was extremely worried for him. Let us all pray for him. May he rest in peace.

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